If you are up to the inevitable confrontation, react in kind. Let him
taste some of his own medicine.

Never show your abuser that you are afraid of him. Do not negotiate
with bullies. They are insatiable. Do not succumb to blackmail.

If things get rough- disengage, involve law enforcement officers,
friends and colleagues, or threaten him (legally).

Do not keep your abuse a secret. Secrecy is the abuser's weapon.
Never give him a second chance. React with your full arsenal to the
first transgression.

Be guarded. Don't be too forthcoming in a first or casual meeting.
Gather intelligence.

Don't misrepresent your wishes, boundaries, preferences, priorities,
and red lines.  Do not behave inconsistently. Do not go back on your
word. Be firm and resolute.
Mirror His Behavior    

Mirror the narcissist’s actions and repeat his words.
If, for instance, he is having a rage attack – rage back.

If he threatens – threaten back and credibly try to use the s
same language and content. If he leaves the house – leave it as well,
disappear on him. If he is suspicious – act suspicious.

Be critical, denigrating, humiliating, go down to his level.

Frighten Him

Identify the vulnerabilities and susceptibilities of the narcissist and
strike repeated, escalating blows at them.  If a narcissist has a secret
or something he wishes to conceal – use your knowledge of it to
threaten him. Drop cryptic hints that there are mysterious witnesses to
the events and recently revealed evidence.

Do it cleverly, noncommittally, gradually, in an escalating manner.  Let
his imagination do the rest. You don't have to do much except utter a
vague reference, make an ominous allusion, delineate a possible turn
of events.
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