Sometimes it looks hopeless. Abusers are ruthless, immoral, sadistic,
calculated, cunning, persuasive, deceitful - in short, they appear to be
invincible. They easily sway the system in their favor.  Here is a list of
escalating countermeasures.  Consult an attorney, an accountant, a
therapist, or a psychiatrist before taking any of these steps.

If you decide to stay in the relationship:

Never disagree with the narcissist or contradict him; Never offer him
any intimacy; Look awed by whatever attribute matters to him (for
instance: by his professional achievements or by his good looks, or by
his success with women and so on);  Never remind him of life out there
and if you do, connect it somehow to his sense of grandiosity;  Do not
make any comment, which might directly or indirectly impinge on his
self-image, omnipotence, judgment, omniscience, skills, capabilities,
professional record, or even omnipresence.

Listen attentively to everything the narcissist says and agree with it
all. Don't believe a word of it but let it slide as if everything is just fine,
business as usual.


Personally offer something absolutely unique to the narcissist which
they cannot obtain anywhere else. Also be prepared to line up future
sources of primary Narcissistic Supply for your narcissist because you.
will not be IT for very long, if at all. If you take over the procuring
function for the narcissist, they become that much more dependent on
you.

Be endlessly patient and go way out of your way to be
accommodating, thus keeping the narcissistic supply flowing liberally,
and keeping the peace.
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